Are you wondering what mistakes women commit that often turn their men off? Have you ever had a great guy in your life only for him to break up with you without you seeing it coming? Do you suspect that you may be doing or saying something that drives the men in your life away? Nothing is more disappointing than going out with a wonderful man, having a wonderful time with him, and then watch him run off due to something you didn’t even notice you were doing. This is the reason why you need to know the mistakes most women make in relationships that turn their men off so that you can avoid them.

Calling Him Continuously

 Generally, men know that it’s their responsibility to make the calls. He’ll call you if he wants to talk to you. He’ll also return your calls if he’s interested in you. But if he doesn’t call or return your calls, then get over it. Calling him back continuously will only annoy him, and this could be very difficult to correct. He wants to pursue you and not the other way round. He doesn’t want to feel as if you are the one chasing him. So try and avoid this at all cost.

Talking About Commitment and Marriage

 If you really want to turn your man off, then talking about settling down is one sure way to achieve this. If it’s your first, second or even third date, you would not want to be discussing the names you’ll give to your kids or where you want them to school. If he isn’t on the same wavelength as you, then your relationship is doomed.

Constantly Trying To Fix Him

 Don’t concentrate on his potential, instead, see the present reality. How can you love someone you are always trying to change? You need to learn how you can be a woman that makes him want to better himself. Encourage him to change through his own ideas. Never impose the changes on him.

Ranting About Your Ex-Boyfriends

 If you are on the first few dates with a man, one thing you should never do is to go about ranting at your ex, although you’ve got the right to. Never share your grief and anger about how your ex was afraid of committing to you or what a control freak he was. Such mistakes can only make the man you’re currently dating to think that you have serious problems with men or that you’re still in love with your ex.

Asking Too Many Questions about His Past Relationships

 Don’t ask him about his past relationships. A question or maybe two about why they broke up is okay, you’ve got the right to know if maybe she tried to murder him. However, too many questions about his past relationships can result in so many problems, including reconciliation with his ex. The questions will get him thinking about the good old days, and he might just end up calling his ex tomorrow, instead of calling you.

Knowing the common mistakes women make with their men can help you avoid that kind of behavior in your present relationship. Securing an emotional bond with your man can take some time. So it’s important that you mind your actions as you pull him closer to you. That’s what wise women do.