Every man loves his freedom. For most guys, the thought of being committed to just one woman for the rest of their lives is enough to get them scared. For men, commitment means the sacrifice of freedom, space, an imminent threat of financial devastation, and loss of sexual variety. Currently, men tremendously fear marriage and commitment. So, what’s the explanation for this? Why are most men so scared of commitment nowadays? Below are some reasons:

Lack of Space

 Men love guy things. We want guy space to do stuff like handling our tools or taking care of our cars. But immediately the women come into the picture, they want to take over and make the room look more feminine. They fill what used to be exclusively a male territory with lacy drapes and flower paintings. All of a sudden, you’ll find that your bathroom has been filled with female products, and your nice leather couch has been re-decorated in light colors and the place where you used to keep all your tools has been turned into an indoor flower garden.

Bad Past Experience

 When a man has been divorced once and gone through the terrible divorce system, he wouldn’t want to risk committing to another person again. These days, men fear to sign a contract legally and allowing women to clean them out financially. The successful achievers, those of us who have struggled to build big companies and successful carriers from scratch, are particularly scared of getting forced to give up all the fruits of our hard work and therefore opt not to ever get involved in any serious relationship.

Loss of Freedom

 We men are very naturally independent, and we fear anything that could interfere with this. We like making our own decisions and controlling our own lives using our own rules. However, when a woman comes into the picture, all the decisions, a man used to make, like purchasing a huge TV and going for a drink with his friends, suddenly have to be first cleared by the woman. And in most cases, her answer is always a “no.” Suddenly, we find ourselves ensnared, doing what the woman wants to do, irrespective of our own needs and desires.

The Emotional Burden

 Most women see marriage as a fairy tale. For women, committing to them means that we’ll magically solve all their issues, from their childhood problems with their dads to the large shopping arrears incurred on their credit cards. In most cases, women cover their real personalities and plans until they’re finally married. But in the end, the truth always comes out and then we find ourselves bound legally to a woman who isn’t even right for us. And by then it will be too late.

Loss of Sexual Variety

 We men naturally yearn for sexual variety. When we commit to one woman, we willingly choose to cut off ourselves from any other sexual hunts. As a result, sexual boredom is likely to set in, followed by a complete lack of desire. For most of us, even those who weren’t all that sexually active anyway, this could be the most frightening commitment consequence of all.