Have You Ever Made A Phone Call To A Man And Later Regretted It? If So… Discover The Rules On Calling Men, Emailing Men & Texting Men!

Ladies,

Allow me to ask you a few questions.

Have you ever sat by the phone hoping a man would call but guess what, he didn’t? So you called him and felt completely stupid afterward?

Have you ever wanted to make that first move, and call a man, only to later regret that you didn’t?

Have you ever been in that awkward spot of being the one who was constantly doing all the calling, when in the beginning it was the other way around?

Perhaps like many women, you too have witnessed where a man that initially sent constant reminders that he was interested in you. He called you regularly, the little daily text messages gave you butterflies, and his immediate responses to your messages reminded you of how much he was into you and the relationship.

But then from out of nowhere, he began to back off. His messages became less frequent. The romantic text messages that he uses to send became shorter, and now lacked emotion?

Have you never been there?

Sure you have, we all have. We’ve all been there!

Nothing drives a woman more insane than a man who says he’ll call and doesn’t. Or a man who called regularly then stopped cold turkey. Or a man who leaves you wondering… You know what I am talking about; our constant obsession of ‘needing to know’ takes over and won’t go away!

The good news is that you CAN know exactly how to handle every situation you’ll ever encounter when it comes to calling, emailing, and texting the man you want.

Not only that, but it’s easy. Knowing what to do will become second nature to you, once you discover the reasons behind what to do – and what not to do – when it comes to calling men!

Just think about it.

While we may never fully understand men, it doesn’t take you being a psychologist or a genius to realize men don’t like phones!

Sure, he has one. Sure, they even use it, but NOT as we women do. To many women, we refer to the phone as our ‘lifeline’! While we find pleasure in the phrase, “Can you hear me now?”The reality is, for a guy, the phone is like saying “ET Phone Home”; it’s an alien world. That’s about the extent of his cellular usage. A quick call of checking in and that’s it.

Calling Men – In The Beginning Stages Of A Relationship, What Should You Do?

Let’s say you’ve just met a cool guy. You had dinner, you shared many of the same interests, and in all the relationship seemed promising. So what gives? Why haven’t you heard from him? It’s like poof, he vanished.

First, let me ease your mind. No, he didn’t join a Witness Protection Program and chances are, he’s hit the gym every day since you last spoke. Trust me, when I tell you this. Men who are interested will call.

If you’ve camped out by the phone — waiting or even picked up the receiver just to make sure there’s a dial tone, it’s a complete waste of time! Sure, there could be several reasons why he hasn’t called, and maybe it has nothing to do with you. Perhaps he doesn’t want to come across as too pushy, or better yet, for his ego, too interested. Regardless, when a man is interested, he will call.

When a man is interested, he pursues and he chases. Pursuit doesn’t mean that a man wants to take on all the work; however, it does allow a man to feel like a man.

Men value what they have to work for, and by you not being too jumpy in pursuing him, and making that first call, it shows him right upfront what you’re all about. Meaning, you are not desperate for a man, you are not pacing the floors as if there are no other options, and you have no intention of chasing anyone.

Always remember, silence is golden. Not calling or not saying anything at all can speak volumes and is, most often, your best choice.

Calling Men – How To Handle Or Call A Man When You’ve Been Dating For A While?

Let’s say you have been steadily dating a man, and all is going well. He spends all his time with you, and his daily reminders of letting you know he is interested to come like clockwork. For months everything is smooth sailing, and then all of a sudden his routine changes. Where he ‘used’ to send you those short, sweet messages of checking in, he suddenly just stops.

What do you do?

All relationships that start with a bang will eventually slow down, and usually, this is one area we will immediately take notice. The reason being is that we know the signs and our gut tells us something is changing. Trust your instincts.

Typically, when a man stops calling, this is one tell-all sign, that a man is pulling back.

Some pulling back is expected, as it’s unrealistic to think the ‘honeymoon’ will last forever. The key is to sit back and observe. Not react, not call; but observe.

Yes, it’s so maddening, as no one wants to sit around and dwell on what may have happened, what we may have done, and why he might be pulling back. It’s not an easy process to have to deal with, and especially after he spent months wowing you and showering you with tons of attention.

The reality is, it could be something simple and has nothing to do with you. On the contrary, I like to be a little more proactive, just in case.

Always remember that men are not like women when it comes to communicating, and especially if it involves a PHONE!